When was the last time your ego went out for a death? Or you simply put aside your lure and materialism in the dustbin and taste some new virtues of Work, Energy and Power? Or when was the last time when you sent your eyes in the deepest of the blues far above and they never returned back?
Romance takes away your sleep, your easiness, your convenience at everything and what not. Conventions are so easily made, isn’t it! Romance does make you a victim of unfairness of life once you choose to give everything to a girl, but then very few people reach the next level – The Mysticism.
Waltz holds a special place, fantasies provide an ultimate time utilization in love, but suppose fantasies knock your door every time you wish them to be true! When Love faces ups and downs, and the relationship becomes experienced enough having been a witness to so many phases of hatred and misunderstandings, once the relation sustains, it reaches a new level called Romance. And when romance persists, it becomes a short –timed phase called Mysticism.
When you are a lover and you are in mysticism, you don’t get perturbed by small bullshit happenings of the world; how do they matter to you after all. You may listen to enormous noises, but you only hear the voice of your own thoughts, every time, every moment. You no more live in the world created for you to live in, you start living in a world which you have created for your own. When you work, you give your 100%, when you speak, you speak perfect. Your eyes are so deep and innocent that the person talking to you is easily mesmerised. Your prefer remaining quiet most of the time, but your wavelengths are so defined that your personality is strongest ever. You carry a smile 24X7 on your radiating face. You solve your problems yourself. A sphere of unknown power is created around you as you walk. You love yourself, you love everyone.
You reach the what-they-say, divine. You reach those places in this world where a common fellow of yours can never reach in his ideology. Your thoughts are your God. And you are the God of your own thoughts.
………………. And surprisingly, you still love the girl !!!
Snehil Basoya.
I am Myself 
ankur
June 7, 2010 at 10:14 am
good blog but
thoda kam glorify ar kiya kar 🙂 …!
anonymous
June 7, 2010 at 4:17 pm
it is suprising that u still love d girl !
common yr move on ..u have much better things to do in life …believe me forget her , otherwise u ll repent that u didnt live ur college days to ur best.
One thing more , do try to experience a materialistic relationship, a relationship which everyone is in .,,, ull gain more experience and strength.
snehilbasoya
June 7, 2010 at 4:53 pm
@ ankur – glorify karna to purani aadat hai 🙂
@ anonymous – If I would have “still loved the girl”, I would have been writing monotonous, gloomy, negative vibes instead of “Romance and Mysticism” 🙂 🙂
it has already been months since i have “moved on” as you said !! Its just that i was discussing something on spirituality and love with Ankur that I got a strong “feeling” to write this post from within.
When you write a blog, its not always that you are writing a diary my dear friend 😀
Regarding a materialistic relationship, I am already thinking about it.
Thanks for showing concern, but it would have been much better if I would have known your name ……. 😀
Snehil
Ruprekha
June 7, 2010 at 9:24 pm
nice post..!!! really shows the spiritual side of love..!!
keep writing more n more 🙂
anonymous
June 7, 2010 at 10:43 pm
hey gud..i m happy for u 🙂
but then why did u write ”you still love d girl”…is it a new girl or or u r romaticising the same girl in your thoughts?? you just cant write such a blog from someone else’s experience, u must have experienced it !
one thing more (again :P) , i personally hate that girl, thats the reason i cant disclose my name ! 🙂
snehilbasoya
June 8, 2010 at 9:26 am
@ roopsy – and you keep reading more and more 🙂
@ anonymous –
now i am getting emotionally attached with you ..!! lolz
“you still love the girl” – you got it completely wrong man …….. read the previous paragraph and you will know that its written in that context.
and regarding “i personally hate that girl” ………. I bet you don’t !!! 😛
( i already got a smell !!)
anonymous
June 8, 2010 at 3:41 pm
again , ..
its gud to talk to u..
dekh seedhi si baat tere itne complicated blog na mujhe samjh ate h n kisi aur ko (bas tere n ankur ke liye h :P)….hum to upar ki ek line padhte h phir last line , phir jo interpret hota h kar lete h …. :D. mere jaise anonymous bol dete h ki samjh nahi aya 😦 n baki bol dete h ”nice post , keep writing more n more” …(kabhi to samjh ayega koi blog ..hehe )…
chal jo bhi h , i m cleared dat u no more love that girl…
and rhi baat meri , u smelled me right but got me wrong ….think again 😉
P.S.: I srsly hate that girl, just d way u do …. (think now 🙂 )
anonymous
June 8, 2010 at 3:43 pm
ek aur baat …
make life simple and then try to njoy it rather than making it complicated.. 🙂 ,
try karna zyada maza ayega 🙂 …n zyada ache comments bhi ayenge ..:P
snehilbasoya
June 9, 2010 at 12:32 am
banda tu mast hai beta ……… milte hain kabhi, bata kahan milna hai iit mein?
😛 😛
anonymous
June 9, 2010 at 11:03 pm
tricky ques … 😉
u wont have an answer… 😛
keep njoying !! n keep writing 🙂
snehilbasoya
June 10, 2010 at 10:13 am
sure …….!!
keep reading 🙂
Jai Anand
June 17, 2010 at 1:10 am
cha gye bhaiya!!
Sidak
June 19, 2010 at 9:06 pm
Very well written Snehil… Reaching the state of Mysticism is what everyone desires but the path towards achieving it is an altogether different issue. Mysticism through romance is fraught with unstable relationships and pain. It may require unreasonable sacrifices to the detriment of other relationships as well as other sundries in life. Reaching the state of Mysticism may be a lifetime or it might never be attained. Is life all about working towards achieving this state????
Aayush Agarwal
June 27, 2010 at 11:18 pm
Disappointing…to say the least…..dont take offence yaar basoya,
but this one seemed like you actually wanted to write something so u sat on ur compu nd started typing…looked more of ur attempt to elaborate the the meaning of love, romance and its mystic aura.
not one of ur usual effortless and real feeling filled posts…….
but still my word doesnt count……what matters is ur opinion 🙂
and yeah if its any IIT girl in question…beware!!!
once again dont take offence buddy…………..looking fwd to smthng more in inflow and “BASOY- IC” 😉
tc
god bless